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To all the moms, dads, sons, daughters, spouses, a

To all the moms, dads, sons, daughters, spouses, and loved ones who serve or have served—thank you. I see you, honor you, and hold space for the unique sacrifices you’ve made for our country.

Happy Veterans Day 🇺🇸

Hi, I’m Nicole! 👋 And if you’re a mom who

Hi, I’m Nicole! 👋

And if you’re a mom who struggles with feeling like you have to do it all and be it all, I get it.

For a long time, I felt like I was constantly falling short, comparing myself to an impossible standard of the “perfect mom.” It was exhausting, and it kept me from being present with my family and myself.

But I’ve learned that perfection isn’t the goal—connection, compassion, and authenticity are.

And that’s why I created this space. Here, I share real stories, support, and practical tips to help you let go of the pressure to be perfect and embrace motherhood as you are.

If you’re new here, welcome! I’m so glad you’re here. Let’s navigate this season together. 👯‍♀️

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These past few days have left me feeling deeply sa

These past few days have left me feeling deeply saddened, shocked, and honestly, a little lost. Like many of you, I am grappling with the weight of a world that feels harder to navigate each day.

As moms, we’re expected to stay strong for our kids, to keep moving forward despite the fear and uncertainty. To explain to our children something we can’t even comprehend, and to balance the grief we feel with business as usual, so as not to place the burden of the world on their shoulders.

But here’s what I want you to know: If you feel this way, you are not alone. In this space, you are seen, valued, and held just as you are. My feed on this account has been filled with similar messages of solidarity, compassion, and kindness. My mission from day one has been to create a community where women and mothers feel connection, strength, and compassion. Now more than ever, I’m committed to holding that space.

We don’t have to have all the answers or the perfect plan. We can simply show up for each other, knowing we’re not alone. I will continue to stand for maternal well-being, and I will focus on supporting, empowering, and advocating for all women and all mothers as we navigate what’s sure to be more “unprecedented times.”

Sending love and solidarity to you all. 💕

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You’re a good mom regardless of what your Bingo

You’re a good mom regardless of what your Bingo card says 🎃

Did you know that 65% of moms feel increased pressure to be perfect around the holidays? That pressure leads to heightened stress, strained relationships, and burnout.

I know, because that was me 🙋🏻‍♀️ I had it in my head that I had to create Pinterest-perfect memories for my family around the holidays, and I was constantly comparing myself to what I saw on social media and basically forcing “fun family traditions” that ended up with tears (mostly mine).

Now, I’m much more relaxed and I think it’s better this way for my family. I still like to be a little extra with decorations or matching pjs (but I let the kids pick them out and decide if they are going to wear them). I also don’t let it get it to me if one kid vetoes the pumpkin shirt and we don’t make it to all the activities.

It’s not easy to release the pressure to be perfect but one thing that helped me was reframing it. I would much rather look back at authentic memories than staged photo ops. And don’t get me wrong, if doing all the things is your thing- I love that! What works for one mom isn’t always what’s best for another. AND just because you see someone else doing it, doesn’t mean it has to be a thing.

Sending you lots of love and patience this Halloween. May the odds be ever in your favor, Mama 👻

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Stay awhile 👋 I have a feeling we’ll get alo

Stay awhile 👋

I have a feeling we’ll get along 😉

I am a recovering people-pleasing perfectionist. I sometimes still find myself playing the comparison game and feeling like I am falling short. Then the guilt sets in. For being so hard on myself and for feeling like I’m not doing enough.

Here’s the thing I’ve learned though: Literally NO ONE is harder on me than MYSELF. In fact, most people actually think I’m pretty great (and I’m guessing you are, too!) ✨

So I’ve learned to stop the toxic thoughts in their tracks before they can consume me and practice self-compassion. I’d love to help you, too, if this is something you’re struggling with!

I’m taking all my educator tools, mixing in some sociology, sprinkling in some positive psychology, a little bit of mindfulness, and a whole lot of empathy and connection to create a space I wish I had 5 years ago!

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